Do you spend your life wondering how everyone else's life is so wonderful when your's is stuck in a rut, or maybe a deep well?
Remember most do not post what's truly going on in their life. Most social media sites are the 'I want you to think this about me' sites.
So how can you get back in your own rhythm?
I’m guilty. Are you?
I’ve been chatting with several clients this week and noticed a similar pattern of distraction interaction. What do I mean by this?
I know I rate quite highly at times in the moderate range.
We have become a generation of ‘instant gratification seekers’. I’ve noticed on the rare occasions that I’ve not had my technology, I reconnect with the ‘real’ world and people.
So what are some of the ways we can take back control?
Recognise why you reach for your phone.
Boredom, stress, anxiety. It’s almost as if we are trying to distract ourselves from the problem at hand. Next time you reach for the unlock button, ask yourself what’s going on right now that you’re distracting yourself from.
Know the differences between interacting in person and online.
How many times have you read something online and got the wrong end of the stick? Without that face to face interaction, things can be misinterpreted. We are not picking up the energy of the person.
If you are trying to hide from the real world behind social media is it not is the time to step out of its shadow and take back you? Not Joe Bloggs the facebook, Twitter or Instagram icon.
Anyone for coffee? A real one?
Becky lives in West Sussex, UK and is a Therapist using hypnosis, Psy-TaP, Kinetic Shift and Mindscaping. Please feel free to explore the website to learn more about her.